The harsh dating truths 'New Girl' doesn't show you
What's the story
New Girl hilariously showcases young adults's dating lives in a big city, often getting it all wrong. It oversimplifies complicated relationship dynamics, financial woes, and ignores the hard work it takes to make a connection in the busy city. Here's taking a look at the gulf between what New Girl showed and what it's really like to date in a big city.
Financial reality
Unrealistic financial expectations
In New Girl, characters lead a comfortable life despite being underpaid. In real life, living in a big city can be financially taxing. Rent, transport, and socializing can add up quickly, making it difficult for many to afford what they see on screen. The show glosses over financial struggles that are a reality check for young adults trying to balance work, life, and expenses.
Relationship complexity
Simplified relationship dynamics
While the series depicts relationships as quirky and simple, often quelling problems with humor or simple gestures, real-life relationships are a ballgame of complex emotions and communication hurdles, which take effort to navigate. The show's portrayal may make viewers underestimate the time and energy it takes to forge meaningful connections in between busy urban schedules.
Planned interactions
Overemphasis on spontaneity
Spontaneous adventures are a staple in New Girl, but real-life dating often requires a bit of planning (what a drag, right?), considering our busy schedules and logistical restraints in large cities. Coordinating time with potential partners can be tricky when you're balancing work and personal life. The show's emphasis on spontaneity overlooks the practicalities involved in arranging dates/social gatherings.
Diverse realities
Limited diversity of experiences
While New Girl centers around a group of friends who are more or less from the same background, it is important to note that big cities are also home to a diverse population with different experiences. The show fails to do justice to the cultural richness or different perspectives that come into play when dating in an urban setting. What do you think?